Despite all the myths and anecdotes about mother-in-law and son-in-law relationships, these people can still get along very ll. Often, mothers of daughters begin to love their son-in-law as their own son, so they want to please their loved one as much as possible on their name day. In the article, will consider options for original gifts from the mother-in-law and give advice on choosing a “present”.
What to look for when choosing?
First of all, you should consider how much time the daughter has in a relationship with a loved one. If the couple has been married for a long time, they have a strong family, choose something worthy and expensive, because the person who makes your daughter happy deserves the highest appreciation and praise. If the young man is in the status of a future son-in-law, he can be presented with a simpler gift. Be sure to consult with your daughter about the “present”, because she knows her husband’s tastes ll and will be able to suggest an original idea or evaluate your proposal.
There is a certain list of things that are not customary to give a son-in-law for his birthday. According to etiquette, it is forbidden to present personal hygiene and personal care products. Such a gift can be given by a wife or brother, but not by a mother-in-law. In no case should you give gifts that can at least partially hint to a person about his shortcomings.
Even if your relationship is strained, try to put your soul into the choice of “present”, because your daughter will suffer the most from bad relations beten the closest people. Choose a gift that your son-in-law will be delighted with, of course, focusing on your financial capabilities.
Many women know how to knit beautiful items of clothing with their own hands: saters, sleeveless jackets, hats, socks … Hover, the son-in-law may not like the sater associated with love, and then he will find himself in a very delicate situation. On the one hand, it’s ugly to offend your mother-in-law, and on the other hand, you don’t want to ar an uncomfortable thing. The same goes for any kind of clothing. - donation is not recommended. Firstly, you can miscalculate with the size, and secondly, choose the wrong model. If you still want to please your son with a new thing, present a gift certificate to one of the clothing stores.
It is not recommended to give gifts for the son-in-law’s birthday that will be used by the couple together. A man may think that the “present” was made for his daughter, and not for him. Therefore, leave such gifts for your dding anniversary.
Often, the brother-in-law is also called the husband of the sister. In this case, you should follow the same rules as when choosing a “present” for the second half of your daughter.
This category includes universal “presents” that any man will be pleased to receive.
A classic woolen or cashmere scarf will keep your sister’s husband or daughter warm in the winter cold. You can choose a branded accessory that will make the image fashionable and modern. Try to choose a scarf in this style, to match with outerar.
A large wallet, where, in addition to money, you can put cards and documents, will be a practical gift that a man will not part with. Genuine leather purse with a stylish design will please the son-in-law. Be sure to put a coin inside.
A personalized pen in gold or silver in a mahogany case will be used frequently by the son-in-law. “Present” is especially useful for those who often has to sign papers.
An expensive crazy watch with a steel case and a leather strap is a great choice for a business man. In stores you can find high-quality replicas of famous brands that exactly resemble the original.
It is a mistake to think that only women ar jelry. Many men will not refuse a beautiful gold ring with enamel and a small stone. This product looks beautiful and expensive. You can buy a gold bracelet or chain for your daughter’s husband. The original “present” will be cufflinks with personalized engraving or a tie pin.
If the children have been married for a long time and the man has established himself as a responsible, reliable and loving head of the family, it will be a great honor for him to receive a family heirloom that is passed down from generation to generation through the male line. Surely you or your husband has a gold ring, a pendant with a chain or a bracelet that was given to you by your parents. Giving your daughter’s husband a good and important “present” for the family, you thereby show your trust and maximum disposition towards him.
For a car enthusiast, a new navigator or DVR will be a wonderful gift. These are very necessary things that will never be superfluous. If possible, give your son-in-law a set of new tires, he will be very grateful for such a practical “present”.
Those who like to sit in a noisy company by the fire in nature will like the barbecue set, which includes a barbecue, a set for skers and a couple of bags of coal. Hover, such a “present” is appropriate only if there is a dacha.
If your son-in-law loves barbecue, give him an electric barbecue or electric barbecue for his birthday.
Young people will definitely appreciate trendy phone accessories, such as wireless headphones. A wireless mouse and keyboard will suit a computer gamer. If the son-in-law works a lot with a laptop, give him a comfortable ergonomic chair in which he can relax. An excellent option would be virtual reality glasses that will allow you to plunge into the game world.
If finances allow, present your daughter’s husband with a game console for her birthday. Such a gift will delight any man.
A beautiful modern briefcase made of genuine leather will be a great choice for a son-in-law who works in the office. It is recommended to choose a model with multiple compartments to allow documents to be separated. Internal pockets for small pieces of paper will also come in handy. Many briefcases now have special compartments for pens and other stationery. Pockets on the outside would be helpful too.
It is not necessary to give classic things. If you know your son-in-law ll, you can give him an original surprise that he will remember for a long time.
Skydiving certificate — for thrill-seekers. Men love to test their endurance and prove their courage. If the son-in-law is not afraid of heights, such a “present” will be to his liking. A helicopter or airplane flight would also be an excellent option, especially if in childhood the husband of a daughter or sister dreamed of becoming a pilot.
An equally original option would be a certificate for ATV racing or karting. Trying yourself as a racer is always interesting, and the feeling of sharp turns and high speed will be remembered for a long time. You can also give a certificate to an extreme driving school, where a man will learn how to drive his own car cool, but consult your daughter about this “present”. There is a good chance that her husband will want to try his skills outside the racing area, which at the very least can lead to a large fine.
A lover of outdoor activities, hiking and spending the night in the fresh air will need travel kits. You can give your son-in-law a high-quality tent or a new hiking bacweack for his birthday. An excellent option would be a kit for a tourist with a flashlight, a knife, dishes and other items necessary for a hike.
A mountain lover will love a certificate for a climbing lesson.
A large chessboard with beautiful carvings will be a great choice for a lover of this sport. You can add a chess clock to the board.
If the son-in-law is fond of collecting coins and paper money, rare silver coins or money will be an excellent gift option. They can be purchased at numismatic online stores.
If possible, replenish your son’s collection with a gold coin of the Russian Empire with the profile of Nicholas II.
Sports match ticket
It is rare when a man is not fond of sports. Surely the daughter’s husband has his own preferences in football, basketball or hockey. Give him two tickets to a game of his favorite team, which he would love to attend. You can complement the “present” with accessories with the symbols and emblem of the team. Before buying tickets be sure to check with your daughter or, as if by chance, ask your son-in-law about his preferences, otherwise, instead of a cool surprise, an unpleasant incident may turn out.
For information on what else you can give your son-in-law for his birthday, see the next video.